Monday, March 7, 2016

Single people shouldn't give relationship advice?

I'm going to hop right into it! I hear people say all the time that you shouldn't take advice from single people. Why not? I'm usually the single friend and I give great advice. You know why? Because when the relationship fails and you call me crying, guess who is thinking "I told you so?" ME. Lol and I know that's not nice or what you'd want to hear at that moment but just because someone isn't in a relationship doesn't mean you should just ignore what they have to say. I'm going to tell you why single people are the PERFECT people to go to for advice.

1. If anything we can tell you what not to do so you don't end up single like us! Lol

I've made so many mistakes that I would never want another person to go through. Why not listen to someone who's experienced something you may be going through? You could avoid a possible heartbreak if you would just listen. I've done crazy things, and if you're my friend, then you're probably crazy too. Lol Let me help you by telling you not to stalk his social media and question every chick that pops up in his mentions😐

2. We aren't blind in love/like with your partner like you are.

We are the outside looking in, which means we see all of the signs you're missing. People in love tend to make excuses and accept being mistreated but others outside of the relationship see right through that. It's like when you complain about your partner to your family and friends, then you go back and wonder why we don't like them. Love is so blind. I've seen people get hurt over and over because they didn't listen. Don't let that be you.

3. Just because a person is single doesn't mean they aren't capable of having a relationship.

Some single people are waiting for their soulmate. Some people aren't settling. Speaking from personal experiences, after a while you get tired of being played. Why accept being played, when you're going to end up alone anyways? Just to say you have somebody? Why settle when you can build and work on yourself so that you can be the best you can be until you find the person God has for you? Being single gives you time to work on yourself. It's not always a bad thing, and I know a lot of single people who are happier than people in relationships.

All in all you don't have to do what someone says, however that doesn't mean you have to diss someone's opinion because of their relationship status. It's ok to be single. Single people give great advice too.

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