Rejection: 1. to refuse to have, take, recognize, etc.
2. to refuse to grant (a request, demand, etc.).
3. to refuse to accept (someone or something)
Rejection hurts, but it wasn't the first time, and it won't be the last. To be told no, or to be mistreated, or denied anything you pursue just means that it wasn't for you or it wasn't your time. I've been denied a lot of things. There's been jobs or auditions I didn't get. My love life is nonexistent. Lol The last guy I talked to didn't exactly reject me, but was also talking to another girl. I don't like to share. I'm no ones option. I felt rejected. Why wasn't I enough? For a while after that I felt like I wasn't good enough for anybody, when in reality it was a blessing. It's crazy how something or someone that made you so happy, can totally break you. I hit rock bottom. "Rejection" or so I thought opened up my eyes to a lot. I learned a lot about myself. No one should feel like they're in competition with anyone. No one should feel mistreated or unappreciated. No one should have to question their worth. I have guys compliment me all the time but if they weren't from him, it didn't matter. I'm sure we've all been there. But if anything I learned patience. It hurt soooo bad y'all, but I'm ok. I'm functioning, I'm active on campus working 2 jobs with lots of friends, and now I'm writing this blog and sharing my story with you. No one wants to be around someone who's always down in the dumps. YOU WILL BE OK! My relationship with God is better than ever. Sometimes God closes doors for us because we can't seem to see through the "BS" and close it ourselves. I promise you what God has for you is for you and YOU only...and no one can take that away. When you realize that, you will hopefully see that this is only a test, a minor setback for a major comeback. You have to pray for God to remove the pain from your heart and move on, because I promise you the "rejector" isn't losing any sleep.
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