Women dog men all the time for their cheating ways, but we aren't completely off the hook. Me personally I've never cheated, but I won't lie there's times I wish I did. You can be loyal, trustworthy, beautiful, smart, and etc. And that still not be enough for a guy that isn't ready. So this brings the question "Why do women cheat?" Statistics show that men cheat more than women. Men often say "women cheat too, they're just better at hiding it." This may be true. Nobody is innocent.
One reason I feel women cheat is because of lack of attention. What you won't appreciate, another man will. Women like to feel appreciated. They like to be showed off. When a woman isn't receiving any attention at home she starts to look for it else where. Not all women seek attention but most do. Who doesn't love compliments? You have to compliment and express how your feelings to make your girl feel appreciated. Do you honestly think you're the only one that finds your girl attractive? There's always admirers from a distance and guys in the friend zone waiting for you to mess up so they can swoop in and clean up the pieces.
The insecure male. By far this is the most annoying thing ever. lol Guys will treat you bad out of jealousy or intimidation. It gets to the point where the roles are flipped. The guy is nagging all the time instead of the girl. A woman may have a better job or making more money than the guy, and he envies his lady, instead of supporting her. You want to be a baby? Cool. They'll go find another man that matches her work ethic and drive. Now I've seen this happen before...and you're probably thinking "why not just leave?" Well most of the time a lot of time is invested in the relationship, or a child is involved, or the person they're cheating with is in another relationship.
But men aren't the only insecure ones. Women can be VERY insecure. This brings me back to my point about women loving attention. Some girls are just hoes. I hate to say it, but they'll do anything for attention because they want to feel loved. A lot of hoes been hurt so that's all they know and so they continue the cycle and hurt others. It's sad really. Hoes meet a good guy, then break his heart, then he turns into an asshole, then breaks the heart of a good girl, then she turns into a hoe. It's a never ending cycle. A lot of women cheat because they want to hurt men like they've hurt them, a sense of empowerment. They feel like they are in control.
In conclusion women cheat to fill an emotional need. Women cheat because they feel unappreciated, aren't getting what they want at home from their guy, they've been hurt and want revenge, or they're just hoes who like attention. I feel like women get their emotions involved too much, so for her to cheat she had to have really been broken and hurt. Women cheat for different reasons than men. I feel that when men cheat it's for the physical aspect, which is why the percent of cheating with men is higher than women. Women can't have sex as casually as men do because of our emotions...unless they're hoes lol.
At the end of the day whether you agree with me or not, everybody cheats. If you don't want to be characterized or stereotyped then don't cheat. Be the exception. There are still good faithful people out there. There are cheaters who are cheaters anymore. (Good luck with those) but it's possible.
One reason I feel women cheat is because of lack of attention. What you won't appreciate, another man will. Women like to feel appreciated. They like to be showed off. When a woman isn't receiving any attention at home she starts to look for it else where. Not all women seek attention but most do. Who doesn't love compliments? You have to compliment and express how your feelings to make your girl feel appreciated. Do you honestly think you're the only one that finds your girl attractive? There's always admirers from a distance and guys in the friend zone waiting for you to mess up so they can swoop in and clean up the pieces.
The insecure male. By far this is the most annoying thing ever. lol Guys will treat you bad out of jealousy or intimidation. It gets to the point where the roles are flipped. The guy is nagging all the time instead of the girl. A woman may have a better job or making more money than the guy, and he envies his lady, instead of supporting her. You want to be a baby? Cool. They'll go find another man that matches her work ethic and drive. Now I've seen this happen before...and you're probably thinking "why not just leave?" Well most of the time a lot of time is invested in the relationship, or a child is involved, or the person they're cheating with is in another relationship.
But men aren't the only insecure ones. Women can be VERY insecure. This brings me back to my point about women loving attention. Some girls are just hoes. I hate to say it, but they'll do anything for attention because they want to feel loved. A lot of hoes been hurt so that's all they know and so they continue the cycle and hurt others. It's sad really. Hoes meet a good guy, then break his heart, then he turns into an asshole, then breaks the heart of a good girl, then she turns into a hoe. It's a never ending cycle. A lot of women cheat because they want to hurt men like they've hurt them, a sense of empowerment. They feel like they are in control.
In conclusion women cheat to fill an emotional need. Women cheat because they feel unappreciated, aren't getting what they want at home from their guy, they've been hurt and want revenge, or they're just hoes who like attention. I feel like women get their emotions involved too much, so for her to cheat she had to have really been broken and hurt. Women cheat for different reasons than men. I feel that when men cheat it's for the physical aspect, which is why the percent of cheating with men is higher than women. Women can't have sex as casually as men do because of our emotions...unless they're hoes lol.
At the end of the day whether you agree with me or not, everybody cheats. If you don't want to be characterized or stereotyped then don't cheat. Be the exception. There are still good faithful people out there. There are cheaters who are cheaters anymore. (Good luck with those) but it's possible.
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